Dear Kimberly,

You know you're doing pretty good with being less then a month away. A few things....

-It's ok if your brother hasn't RSVP'd yet...he'll be there

-What ever hasn't been done will get done, really in the grand scheme of things it really all has already been done.

-You had an amazing bachelorette party and though you already knew it you have the best bridesmaids (*FRIENDS) ever! More then you could ever dream of. *(I am so blessed, they are truly the best gals I could ever ask for)*

-You are now more than happy with the idea of letting the wonderful helpers in your life (MIL-tobe, and others) help you and take things on and do it better than you could ever think!

-Telling the Cake lady doing a tasting on the Cape on Wednesday's just won't work so sending her a picture of what you want is ok, more than ok!

-Don't forget one big thing...when you might be stepping outside of your "I'm not that bride" zone you have Sara to pull you back in!

-Big one: your mom is coming out tomorrow for the weekend!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! And she will be with you when you have your hair and makeup done for the first time! Though we all know it'll look great! Nothing is better then mom being there! She is a trooper!

-Last night you and your husband to-be when out to dinner for your "one month until" dinner. And it was wonderful yet pretty funny to laugh at everyone who was so serious. Great dinner and a great bottle of wine and going home was the best!

-There is one more gal who is just nice enough to speak up and say "Spain"...

-Oh and you have a whole blogging world that you have not updated for so...cut the shit!

-There will be more to come, but for now! Just enjoy....I know you've heard for weeks, months, years that you need to step back and enjoy! I would say step back right now and enjoy...get things done...but enjoy!

-Though Kimberly, I understand you and Music Guy have planned this whole wedding and the stress is warranted, enjoy!!! No really enjoy!!!!!!!!

xo,

Kimba